在書上看過一段對話，大概是這樣的：
女子：「智者，我想找一個好男人，他要善良、有愛心、溫柔、體貼、有學問、浪漫、有生活情趣… (下刪三百個字)，最重要的，當然要愛護我！」
智者：「那我幫妳不到。我只能幫妳先擁有上述特質，然後，妳自會吸引到和你有相同特質的人。」
很多年前，跟朋友談起甚麼Mr Right, Miss Right，朋友說：
「Mr Right, Miss Right不是用來“尋找”的，而是要自己在過程中，to be a Mr Right/ Miss Right。”
見好友 Stannum 及 Sputnik 都做過這個測驗，我也來玩玩看：
| Your dating personality profile:
Big-Hearted – You are a kind and caring person. Your warmth is inviting, and your heart is a wellspring of love.
Liberal – Politics matters to you, and you aren’t afraid to share your left-leaning views. You would never be caught voting for a conservative candidate.
Romantic – You know exactly how to melt your date’s heart. Romance comes naturally to you and is an important component of any relationship you have. |
Your date match profile:
Practical – You are drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn you off. You appreciate the simpler side of living.
Big-Hearted – You want someone compassionate, someone gentle and kind. A loving, nurturing person will fill that hole in your life.
Adventurous – You are looking for someone who is willing to try new things and experience life to its fullest. You need a companion who encourages you to take risks and do exciting things. |
Your Top Ten Traits
1. Big-Hearted
2. Liberal
3. Romantic
4. Adventurous
5. Practical
6. Wealthy/Ambitious
7. Sensual
8. Shy
9. Intellectual
10. Stylish
|
Your Top Ten Match Traits
1. Practical
2. Big-Hearted
3. Adventurous
4. Intellectual
5. Conservative
6. Athletic
7. Romantic
8. Sensual
9. Outgoing
10. Wealthy/Ambitious
|
Take the Online Dating Profile Quiz at Dating Diversions
測驗結果，原來“My Top Ten Traits”跟“My Top Ten Match Traits”的排位也算是相去不遠；這樣看來，要遇到適合的人，還不算太難罷？（揑把汗！）-_-”
慵說，要做好多好多好事(something good)，就會遇到對的人。
是耶？非耶？
又令我想起，這本圖文書：The Missing Piece Meets the Big O.
是的。精進修行，自成圓滿。
我跟他提起愛花的話：「所以最好就是兩個大圓滿一齊滾~~~」
慵問：「你猜，當你成為一個大圓滿（Big O）時，你還會不會想找另一個大圓滿？」
我答：「所以我至今仍堅持“Missing Piece Meets the Big O”這個下集是悲涼的！」
又，黃偉文幫陳奕迅的新歌“葡萄成熟時”有這一段：
我知 日後 路上或沒有更美的邂逅
但當你智慧都蘊釀成紅酒 仍可一醉自救
我想，這是用最文雅的方式講的：“食自己啦！” :p
聖經哥林多前書十三章十三節：
「如今常存的有信，有望，有愛這三樣，其中最大的是愛。」
There must have been a moment of truth
I must have done something good!
你信嗎？你望嗎？
Something Good (Radio Blog 第13 首)
Perhaps I had a wicked childhood
Perhaps I had a miserable youth
But somewhere in my wicked, miserable past
There must have been a moment of truth
For here you are, standing here, loving me
Whether or not you should
So somewhere in my youth or childhood
I must have done something good
Nothing comes from nothing, nothing ever could
So somewhere in my youth or childhood
I must have done something good
For here you are, standing there, loving me
Whether or not you should
So somewhere in my youth or childhood
I must have done something good
Nothing comes from nothing, nothing ever could
So somewhere in my youth, or childhood
I must have done something…
Something good
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